so we might have gotten off the wrong shoe... we might have jut been caught off-guard. 

But there musta been something... hidden somewhere in our hearts... we should've known better... we should've understood...

Had-Been

How do you redefine something that never really had a name? - Savage Garden (I don't know you anymore)

How I relate to that... When you have that something & then suddenly you notice it's not there anymore; instead you have somethingelse still nameless, still strange & with no prospect of a definition.